It Really Is Okay To Skip To The End

Do you know what you want, but you’re not exactly sure how to get it? Perhaps it is an idea for a new business, product, or career but you’re not certain of the steps that you will need to take in order to reach your final destination? Has this indecision stopped you in your tracks?

I have three words for you: "Don’t let it!"

While it is human nature to want to have all of your ducks in a row before your move onward, and it is said that you should have a plan, sometimes it is much more important to remove the obstacle that “lack” (of a plan to move forward) is placing in your way. I know that I don’t have to remind you that 2003 is the year that we will eliminate the word “lack” from our vocabulary, thoughts and lives. (WINK, WINK) Lack comes from the Law of Repulsion, just the thing that we want to deactivate.
When we use works like “I want”, “I desire” or “I need” along with how, where, when and what, we are activating the Law of Repulsion because we are focusing on what we do not have.

For example, stating that you “want a million dollars” really emphasizes that the reason you want it is because you don’t have it. Doesn’t it? Lack is again rearing its head! So let’s work on putting you in a place to attain your goal.

I know what your next question is…

"So, if we’re not going to worry about a plan, how are we going to achieve our goal?" Am I right?

Well, when you have a true desire about something you want, rather than going to not knowing HOW to make it happen, as Nike would say, “Just Do It!” Go to the end result of what you are wanting and focus on that, not the way that it should be achieved. Use words like “I am”, “I choose”, “I receive”, or “I manifest”.

The means and answers will come to you, without you getting in your head about it. Using this practice, you’ve already made huge strides towards achieving your goals – you’ve thought of the idea and determined its outcome by envisioning yourself holding the brass ring! You will notice that the people, circumstances and energy necessary to make your end result possible will show up. Just trust your intuition that the middle part will speak up in perfect timing, loud and clear.

Here’s an example. Jim has been sending out proposals for his firm. As he hits the ‘send” button on his e-mail he says, “I really need to land a big account.” Did you recognize Jim sabotaging himself by activating the Laws of Repulsion? Good! So did Jim after a while. Instead, he decided to say, “I’m going to focus. I have landed the most wonderful account. I have manifested the largest most successful account in my career. Thank you so much for this account.”

What a switch in energy! So what shows up, as a result of Jim changing his way of thinking? Does he get the big account? Well, not initially. That’s because Jim keeps vacillating between the Law of Attraction and the Law of Repulsion. He says that he has landed the biggest account of his career thus far, but he keeps attaching “but WHEN?” messages at the end.

Jim successfully gets a grip on his thoughts, refocuses, and develops some patience. He sits down to prepare to write another proposal, and decides to take a break to collect his thoughts by checking his voice mail. Jim is delighted to find that he has two messages from a client that is very interested in the proposal he sent out three weeks before. This potential client does indeed bring to the table the largest account that Jim has ever handled.

So you see, ultimately, you have the power to create the things that you want in your life, just like Jim. Just trust in yourself, remain steadfast and resist falling back into the trap of the Law of Repulsion.

Patience is a primary key to your success when manifesting.

Concentrate on the end and watch those things you focus on begin to manifest in your reality. Begin keeping a journal documenting the things that start showing up, as an affirmation to the strides that you are making. And always remember to show gratitude for what is coming to you.

Eva Gregory, master coach, speaker and author of The Feel Good Guide To Prosperity has instructed thousands on the Laws of Attraction in person, on the radio and in dozens of teleconference training seminars and programs. She is the author of several books and e-books and has co-developed several telephone-based and internet-based training courses on the Laws of Attraction. Her most popular program to date is her Leading Edge Living One Year Success Program. Eva is regularly featured on radio and in the media and is a recognized authority on the Laws of Attraction. To learn more about her products and services, visit Leading Edge Coaching.

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